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Bethany's avatar

Thank you so much for writing this! I loved reading it, hit all the right notes. I'm still wiping away tears trying to type this from reliving my journey of being introduced to The Wonder Years and all the other bands you mentioned in the timeline. It was such a time, so hard, so tumultuous, like being tossed around in the surf at the beach. You put an incredible amount of insight into your work and I cannot express my gratitude for you putting my feelings to words.

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Just wanted to say that I ended up crying over this article. It’s funny because you wrote somewhere that The Wonder Years told kids things they felt and needed to hear before their therapists ever did; I was listening to TWY around the time my mental health was reaching its absolute worst and I could not tell you how many times I’d cry (and sometimes still do) to random lines from Suburbia, The Devil In My Bloodstream, and I Just Want To Sell Out My Funeral during walks on overpasses and commutes home, and hearing Cigarettes & Saints was when I hit both my lowest and highest of suffering depression and deciding to seek professional help. You wrote about TWY amazingly. I think this does their history and works so much justice. It brought up so many memories complete with the raw emotion of experiencing them when I did. I also adore how you were able to draw out the sociological from the band (I’m also a sociologist lol), and how you were able to put into words that TWY epitomized the weird late-millenial-early-gen-Z culture of suffering/joking about depression and a crumbling society *together*, with the bit about how going through boredom and self-hate together made for undying loyalty. Thanks for this. I’ll definitely be re-reading this every now and again.

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